Grandparents Day (26 October): How to Stay Connected — No Matter the Distance

There’s nothing quite like the magic between grandparents and their grandkids — the way stories become family legends, how hugs somehow fix everything, and how “just one more biscuit” is always approved. But when distance gets in the way, those moments can feel harder to come by.

Grandparents Day (26 October) is the perfect reminder that love doesn’t fade when you’re apart — it just finds new (and sometimes tech-savvy) ways to stay strong. Whether your family is spread across states, overseas, or visiting from a nursing home, connection is still possible… and powerful.

Dr Maral Amani, Paediatric Physical Therapist and Child Development Expert at Lovevery, shares her research-backed ways to keep that special bond alive — and we’ve added a few Parenthood360 twists to make it even more real-life-parent friendly.

1. Record Story Time — A Voice That Never Fades

“Reading stories aloud is timeless. Record yourself reading a story and send the video to your grandchild’s parents. Position the camera to face you, hold the book up for them to see, and read slowly while pointing to the images. Pause occasionally to allow your grandchild to respond. It’s even better if they have a copy of the book at home to enjoy alongside your reading.”

Grandparents have the best stories — and kids never tire of hearing them (especially when there’s an exaggerated dragon voice involved). Parents can hit play at bedtime, nap time, or even in the car for a quick dose of grandparent magic. And if Grandma’s tech-savvy, a few silly filters or costumes might just make story time go viral in the family group chat.

2. Bring Joy to Their Doorstep

“Finding the perfect gift for your grandchildren can be tough, but many grandparents enjoy gifting the Lovevery Play Kit subscription. This service delivers developmentally appropriate toys and books automatically every 2 or 3 months, providing a hands-off opportunity for grandparents to regularly provide delightful surprises for little ones. Play Kits are available individually with no subscription required for one-off gifts.”

Nothing says “I’m thinking of you” like a surprise parcel waiting at the door. Lovevery’s Play Kits take the guesswork out of gifting, but even a handmade card or small surprise can make little faces light up. For families with relatives in aged care, sending joint care packages — filled with kids’ drawings, photos, or voice notes — can bring smiles on both sides. Bonus points if you throw in a sweet treat (for the grandparent, not the toddler).

3. Video Calls That Feel Like Real Visits

“The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) emphasizes that interactive video calls don’t count as ‘screen time’ since they mimic face-to-face conversations. Regular calls with fun activities like singing or storytelling can bridge the gap between visits.”

Let’s be honest — video calls with toddlers can feel like chasing butterflies. But with a little structure (and a lot of patience), they can become something everyone looks forward to. Turn them into “FaceTime Fridays” or “Sunday Storytime.” Try silly filters, play “I Spy,” or let the kids show off their latest Lego creation. For grandparents in care, ask staff to help set up a weekly video chat — consistency makes all the difference.

4. Create a Shared Hobby — Even Online

“Instead of asking the same few questions, consider participating in a hobby together while apart. Whether it’s planting flowers, painting, or cooking the same recipe, participating in parallel activities fosters connection. Choose a hobby based on your grandchild’s interests, ensuring it’s developmentally appropriate. Be open to changing the selected hobby if they wish to try something new. Remember, the focus is on bonding, not just the hobby itself.”

Shared hobbies are the secret to staying close, even from afar. Cook the same meal together, plant matching herbs on your windowsills, or start a “Grandparent Garden” where everyone posts progress pics. The best part? You’ll always have something new to talk about — and maybe a little friendly competition about whose basil looks healthier.

5. Build a Memory Album Together

“During your in-person visits, take photos of your adventures together and print them out. Compile these pictures into a small photo album and give it to your grandchild. They can flip through this album to ‘read’ the story of your special memories together. Babies, in particular, love looking at images of faces, helping them become familiar with your loving expressions even when you’re apart.”

Forget the camera roll that never ends — printing your memories makes them last. Use Canva or Chatbooks to create a shared digital scrapbook, or go old-school with glue, glitter, and a whole lot of mess. It’s a beautiful project for kids to look back on, especially when they need a little comfort or connection.

Parenthood360’s Tip: Make It a Family Ritual

Connection doesn’t have to be complicated — it just has to be consistent. Pick one simple ritual and stick with it. Maybe it’s “Friday Story Day,” a monthly postcard, or a shared playlist that both generations can dance to (Taylor Swift optional, but encouraged). The goal isn’t perfection — it’s presence.

The Heart of It All

Every story read, song sung, or picture shared reminds children that love travels any distance. This Grandparents Day, take a moment to reach out — whether it’s a call, a care package, or a shared laugh over tea. Because these small, genuine gestures aren’t just good for the kids — they’re the heartbeat of family connection.